Sibling Doula Support: Nurturing Older Siblings for the Arrival of a New Baby

Today, I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart: preparing older children for the arrival of a new sibling with the loving support of a sibling doula. First and foremost, let me express just how much I adore older kids. Their curiosity, their energy, their zest for life—it’s truly infectious! And when it comes to welcoming a new baby into the family, I believe it’s essential to make older siblings feel special, valued, and included every step of the way.

That’s why, as a doula, I make it a priority to shower older siblings with love and attention during this exciting time. Whether it’s bringing along small gifts like stickers or seeds for the garden, or simply taking the time to sit down and have a heart-to-heart conversation about how they’re feeling, I’m here to ensure that older siblings feel seen, heard, and cherished.

One of my favourite ways to bond with older siblings is by taking them outside for some fresh air and sunshine. There’s something magical about spending time in nature, exploring the wonders of the world together, and creating cherished memories that will last a lifetime.

One of my favorite ways to bond with older siblings is by helping them adjust to their new baby sibling at home. There’s something magical about spending time together, engaging in activities that make them feel special and included. Initiating bonding activities, such as playing games, reading stories, or even helping with baby care, can create cherished memories that will last a lifetime. Whether we’re playing together indoors, cuddling up for storytime, or sharing a special moment with the new baby, these opportunities for connection are invaluable for nurturing the sibling bond and easing any anxieties they may have about the upcoming changes. 

When it comes time to introduce the new baby, I encourage families to involve older siblings in the process in meaningful ways. Whether it’s helping to choose a special outfit for the baby, reading a story together, or even singing a lullaby, involving older siblings in the care of the new baby fosters a sense of responsibility, pride, and love.

And as the big day approaches and the excitement builds, I’m here to support older siblings every step of the way. From answering their questions and addressing their concerns to providing reassurance and encouragement, I’m here to ensure that older siblings feel supported, empowered, and ready to embrace their new role as a big brother or sister.

So, my dear friends, as you prepare to welcome a new baby into your family, know that you’re not alone. With the loving support of a sibling doula, your older children will feel cherished, valued, and excited to embark on this new adventure together.

Until next time!